How To Get a Girl Wet in 7 Easy Steps

If you’re wondering how to get a girl wet then you must read this. First, let’s understand why this is important.

When a woman gets wet it means that her body is naturally responding to sexual desire and stimulation.

During a state of woman’s arousal, more blood flows to the area of her genitals causing them to swell and lubricate the vagina. Hence, the expression of getting wet.

Introduction

It goes without saying that if you want to know how to get a girl wet, you are trying to have sex with her that will be pleasurable for both of you, which is a very good and healthy approach.

But perhaps nature’s cruel joke is that what most girls like in bed and what gets them wet, is often not the same as what most guys think about doing, or even enjoy doing.

When it comes to sex, most guys focus too much on the genitalia. They firmly believe that touching a woman’s genitals is the only way to get her wet and horny.

Usually, the same guys also believe that a larger penis is all they will ever need to make their woman happy.

However, this is often very misleading and untrue in many cases.

To get her wet and fully aroused, girls usually prefer more foreplay than guys, more sexy talk, and more stimulation of other erogenous zones.

Female’s most erogenous zones

So let us briefly take a more scientific approach and look at the wonderful female body and see which parts can be stimulated to get her more excited.

Here is an infographic that shows the most erogenous (sensual) zones in women based on a survey of 1500 researched subjects.

As expected, the clitoris and vagina, marked as red in the picture, are the most erogenous zones in females. If you want to get a girl wet quickly you need to mainly focus on these areas.

However, please notice that the lips, tongue, neck, breasts, and nipples were also very highly rated by the women that took part in the study.

Here is the most surprising part of the results. The stimulation of these ´secondary´ erotic zones was considered equally effective as the stimulation of the G-spot.

So if you are one of those guys who is completely obsessed with your girl’s G-spot, know that you can achieve a similar effect by stimulating her other erogenous zones which do not require penetration.

Depending on the nature of your relationship and your situation this might be a lot more comfortable for both of you.

To learn how to stimulate your girl’s sexual areas to make her wet and aroused, go directly to Step 5 – How to touch her erogenous zones. To find out how to begin and what girls really expect from a guy, keep reading.

Getting her wet naturally

The most obvious aspect of wanting to get a woman horny and wet is to increase the internal lubrication of her genitals prior to sexual intercourse.

Some guys resort to using lubrication products if their partner is not wet enough for penetration. Although there are many alternatives available on the market today, the best way to deal with this is to do it as nature intended.

Getting your girl naturally aroused will take longer, but it makes the experience of your lovemaking more exciting and pleasurable.

Our bodies are programmed by nature to act and react in certain ways. We are biological beings and internal lubrication is a natural process of the body´s preparation.

Also worth noting is that when a girl is physically aroused, she will often overlook her partner’s inadequacies or mistakes.

This naturally goes both ways.

When a guy is sexually aroused he is also ready to overlook many aspects, sometimes too many. I think the popular saying goes ´He only thinks with his d…´.

Guys will try to use various strategies for getting their girl into the right mood, but for many of them, it seems like quite a challenging and difficult task.

If you follow this guide with step-by-step instructions, it will most definitely help you to have better and more gratifying sex.

Get her wet in 7 easy steps

There are several things you can do that will have very positive effects, just as there are things that if you do them, might become a turn-off and hinder your progress.

By understanding what works, you will notice that getting a girl wet and horny is actually not that difficult. But once that happens, you better get ready to lead, as she will become a lot more open to receiving you.

Step 1 – Become her friend

This is probably the most controversial step but before you jump to conclusions thinking that you definitely don’t want to end up in the ´friend zone, let me ease your worries.

You don’t have to become her best friend forever. That would be quite a substantial commitment! You just need to share some sort of connection that will bring you closer to each other.

Sometimes in life, people can become your friends temporarily. For example, during a long bus journey, you may start talking to a pretty girl and find out that you have many things in common. That brings you closer. She becomes your friend.

Friendship builds a foundation of trust that can quickly turn into something greater and more erotic between you two.

Trust plays a major role in our interpersonal behavior.

Getting a girl to trust you and relax in front of you, will make her want you a lot more than if she felt forced or manipulated into a situation or specific behavior. So if you want to get a girl wet, make sure she feels safe and relaxed.

TIP: A timeless technique for getting a girl to relax, ease any tension, and make yourself more approachable is to make her laugh.

She needs to feel safe with you in order to open up completely. Once she warms up to your presence you may continue your advances.

Step 2 – Flirt and get much closer

Flirting helps to prepare her mind before physical intercourse.

Flirt with a girl and even if she is not exactly into you, she will definitely entertain the attention.

Most girls love it when all your attention points in their direction. They want to become your muse and inspiration.

What they definitely don’t want, is for you to be looking at other women. So keep in mind that such behavior is a big no-no!

Let her know with your actions that this night is special. That she is special.

To flirt well and effectively, without any of your efforts going to waste or in the worst-case scenario, turning against you, you should familiarize yourself with the laws of attraction.

If you think this sounds corny and silly, you may be completely underestimating the value of your own concentration and attention.

Step 3 – Make her feel special

The power of our minds is beyond our understanding. It’s scientifically proven that our minds can influence our biology and activate certain chemical reactions in our bodies. So if you want to get her wet later on, you must first make her feel very special.

Perhaps start the evening with a nice dinner in a nearby atmospheric restaurant, or set a romantic mood at home by dimming the lights and setting a few candle lights to awaken her primal instincts.

Making her feel special is not about making a commitment. Making her feel special in this case is all about letting her know that you really appreciate being so close to her.

Any girl who thinks you are taking her for granted will begin to seek attention from someone else. Making her feel special plays a vital role in solidifying your connection. 

You may think that making a girl feel special is very difficult, but this isn´t true.  It could be argued that you could make someone feel special just by looking at them in a kind and loving way. Simply focus your attention on her and the rest should be easy.

However, it’s crucial to understand that focusing on her doesn’t mean following her every move or waiting until she tells you what to do. That could land you into trouble because she might get bored by your lack of initiative. You need to be confident and believe in yourself.

Be inventive, be spontaneous, and be confident.

Whatever you come up with to make her feel special, the key is to do things that will help you get physically closer. Begin to explore each other in more intimate ways, such as kissing.

Step 4 – Kiss her passionately

One kiss is more powerful than thousand words. If you get this right and receive a positive response from her, you will be able to get even closer.

Start off slow to gain her assurance and make every moment count. Focus on her and the shape of her lips.

During longer kisses with tongue, break it off from time to time and breathe slowly and deeply.

Kissing is of major importance to most girls in the world. Use it to your advantage and try to master the art of kissing.

Being rough in this area, especially at the beginning, will score you zero points. Even girls who love a rough venture will prefer taking it slow initially.

Remember that being a great kisser is the key to getting her to bed! Take a look at these 7 proven ways to become a great kisser before you jump into it.

Don’t be afraid to offer your girl a sensual massage. Most women will respond positively. This will give you an opportunity to touch her body in various places and see how she reacts to your touch.

You can start with a simple neck massage and then progress to the body once you and her are ready. A good massage could be the key to making your date wet even before the sex begins.

Step 5 – Touch her erogenous zones

At this point, kissing has taken control of both of you. It is time to let your hands and fingers and other body parts take over and add to the stimulation and excitement.

In this step, you are ready to explore and touch her other erogenous zones such as the neck, breasts, nipples, and inner thighs to get her wet and fully excited.

Neck

Kissing gently on the neck has brought many women to their knees. It is a very sensual massage that most girls enjoy and it is quite universal.

Whether you live in America, Europe, Australia, or Asia the chances are that your girl will love it too!

Most girls love to be kissed or touched on the neck, especially just behind their ears.

To make your girl even more sexually aroused, you could whisper some specific, passion-igniting words as you kiss her there.

I knew this girl once who practically melted when her boyfriend began kissing her neck near the ear. I never knew something like this was even possible, but it is, many women will testify to this.

Kissing the neck is a great prelude to touching the breasts or the nipples.

Breasts

Which guy does not like to touch breasts?

For most horny guys it doesn’t make much difference what the breasts look like, but girls can be quite sensitive and self-conscious in this area.

Handling the breasts can be a very rewarding experience for you and for her, so take your time.

Squeeze and fondle her breast in such a way that is pleasurable to her. Don’t squeeze them too hard, or she might experience pain and feel discomfort, which can kill the moment.

Women’s breasts are mostly made of fat tissue and the main nerves are located on the skin. Even running your fingers gently along the skin of the breasts will bring the desired effect.

Breasts are very sensual body parts and fondling them the right way can inevitably lead to an escalation in the bedroom.

As you squeeze the breasts do not forget to touch and stimulate the nipples.

Nipples

Stimulating the nipples alone can get a girl wet and even lead to an orgasm in some women.

Although it usually takes longer to achieve than a vaginal orgasm and lasts shorter, (refer to this interview in Cosmopolitan), it can be equally pleasurable.

If you want to excite a woman and make her wet, nipple play should definitely become part of your skill set. Touching the nipples is especially effective during foreplay.

Inner thighs

Partially covered by the legs, the inner thigh area is usually slightly warmer than the rest of the body.

The skin and its muscular tissue are also softer than other parts and it is in very close proximity to the vagina, which is the most erogenous zone in women.

Running your fingers across a girl’s inner thighs is very sexual in nature and can get her wet and aroused. You essentially place your hand between her legs, so this is very intimate.

With a little observation and exploration, you may be able to identify more areas that will stimulate her senses.

Not all women are the same, and where they may share a few pleasurable zones, they will also have their unique preferences.

Your task is to find out what these preferences are and explore them with your touch to get her more aroused.

Step 6. Take your time. Enjoy it.

As you caress her parts, observe and react to her response. At this point, you will be very excited and sexually charged but it is important that she also gets on board to the same levels as you.

Be respectful of the fact that it might take her longer to reach your excitement levels. Guys don’t need much to get very horny and ready, with girls this is a bit different.

Patience is important. Your objective is to make it flow so she cannot resist what her body is demanding but do not rush into anything before she gets to that point.

But with a positive response from her, you will be ready to explore more sensitive and private areas, the most erogenous zones.

Get her wet with oral pleasure

If you are not very experienced with oral sex it might be a good investment of your time to learn more about it. Oral pleasure plays a major part in getting her excited and keeping the excitement alive. Unfortunately, oral sex is also a very sensitive subject that not many people are willing to discuss.

Even your closest friends might not be willing to share the details of their relationship. For one, some may feel that talking about their oral sex experience is simply too embarrassing. Second, the details of this kind of sexual experience are usually kept private between the partners. Discussing those details might breach that unspoken contract and result in a bad break up of an otherwise good relationship.

So how can you learn oral sex and use it to make your girl wet and both of you happy? More importantly, which information can really be trusted? Can you trust what you see in porn?

Not really.

The best way to go about it is to talk to different women about oral sex and what they like. But how do you do that, when even your own girlfriend might not be willing to tell you the complete details of what and how to kiss her to make her come? It’s a very personal subject matter for probably 99% of women.

The truth is that some women may not even know what they really like because they themselves have not experienced it yet. Depends on the person and her individual sexual experience.

Having said that, you can be sure of one thing – most women enjoy oral sex just as much as men. If not more, they can reach multiple orgasms, one after another. Most men are not capable of that.

During an intense and pleasurable sexual experience, men may face a bigger problem. Namely, lasting long enough. Dedicate some time to learning how to last longer in bed before the fun begins.

If you have an orgasm too early it will be awkward going forward. You will need to learn to control your sexual urges and give her time to get fully aroused.

There are specific and natural ways to control premature ejaculation that should work for everyone. For details, see the popular Ejaculation By Command program.

Step 7. Explore her most erogenous zones

When the situation gets heated and touching her most erogenous zones seems like a natural progression, begin by placing your hands near the area of the clitoris and the vagina.

Stimulating a woman’s clitoris and vagina with your fingers is a good way to really increase the intensity of your sexual experience.

At this stage of sexual intimacy, when you are already touching each other’s most erogenous zones, you can add oral pleasures to increase sexual energy and the levels of gratification.

Your instincts and her reaction will indicate when she is completely ready for the final step, but as you sense that her private area is moist then this is a good indication that she is ready to receive you.

Most girls will not initiate the final step or rush into penetration.

The final step is traditionally initiated by the guy, but of course today this varies and depends on cultural upbringing and individual preferences and desires.

Making her wet is one thing, but making sure she is satisfied afterwards, is another.

Things to avoid when trying to get her wet

To make a girl wet, guys sometimes resort to unorthodox methods. Whereas these methods might produce some results with specific individuals, they are better to be avoided, unless recommended by a medic. 

Lubricating sprays and gels

There are some lubricating sprays and gels which can provide the required moisture, but the results are varied. The sprays usually need to be applied a few minutes before the intercourse. This action alone may kill the romance a bit, or at the least, bring down the levels of your excitement, but many couples use this type of alternative. 

However, using artificial sprays may come with consequences. Even though they are marketed as water-based sprays and gels, they often contain other chemicals, such as triglycerides, glycerol, sorbitol, phenoxyethanol, flavors, menthol, etc…

Some girls may experience an allergic reaction to some of the chemicals of lubricating sprays and gels, which is not a pleasant thing in such sensitive areas.

Tip! Instead of using any type of external lubrication, perhaps focus on kissing and touching her a bit longer. Explore her sensual and erotic zones and take your time. Give her a chance to get enough stimulation from you to awaken her state of sexual arousal.

Consuming alcohol to get a girl wet

Remember that in most countries the legal age for alcohol consumption is 18. If you provide alcohol to a minor and proceed with sexual advances toward that person, you may have to face horrible consequences in the future.

Alcohol is known to spike reactions in the human body. More often than not heavy alcohol intoxication makes people lose control and do things they normally wouldn’t do.

Alcohol does not do anything directly to get her wet, but it helps the muscles and the body relax.

During an intoxicated state our thoughts, desires, and behavior may undergo a significant change. While sometimes a little bit of alcohol may act as a sexual stimulant, too much alcohol may lead to nausea, vomiting, and possibly alcohol poisoning, which may require hospitalization.

Tips to make every moment count

• Exercise patience and think of her. After all, it is not you who needs to get wet.
• Start slowly and observe and react to her responses.
• Focus on kissing, that is the best way to get started

If you don’t intend on having children yet, please make sure to use adequate protection. This may be uncomfortable, but it is a very important step.

Bottom line

Now that you have been educated on how to get a girl wet, you see that it doesn’t have to be very complicated. However, it is a process that is connected to the emotions of another person, so it can be challenging. If there is one thing that you should remember, is this:

It all begins with her liking you. The rest is easy.

You just need to be patient and have the right approach. Keep your spirits up and be confident in your acquired knowledge and yourself. You are now equipped to face your challenge to get a girl wet and aroused in your presence.

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