Would you like to know how to pick up girls on the beach? Over the years, it has been an accepted norm that beautiful and sexy girls can be wooed on the beach. The warm weather, the sun, the waves, the general chill ´beach atmosphere´ can amplify all your pickup efforts.

Keep your cool and prepare yourself for that special day. Remember that good first impressions are will go a long way in determining the kind of girl you can attract.

I have put together 10 proven methods on how to successfully pick up a girl on the beach. By the time you are done reading this post, you would have discovered the right attitude to develop to achieve your aim.

Pack your stuff

Before you embark on your adventurous journey, you need to put your beach gear together. You will need your swimsuit, sunglasses, a ball, a music box, and refreshments. If the beach is local, take ice blocks in a cooler for retaining the coolness of your drinks.

You will definitely need it for the hot weather to quench your thirst and keep your body temperature down. Another reason why need cool refreshments is for you to seize the opportunity to offer your drinks to a girl you like.

Go along with your buddies

You should consider going for this ultimate hunt with your pals in order not to seem too obvious to the girls at a glance. You can engage in friendly games like soccer or volleyball.

You may even go as far as building sandcastles like teenagers. This will hide your keenness in searching for her at all costs. It won’t make you appear creepy to her when you finally make your move toward her.

Put in your best into the games while taking calculated gazes at her from time to time. Plan your approach wisely.

Pick the right spot

Choose a comfortable and convenient spot by scanning through the entire beach as soon as you arrive there. Selecting a strategic position that isn’t too far from your heart’s desire immediately after you find her is an important factor in picking the right girl.

Spread your blanket or carpet at your chosen spot and arrange your bags and drinks cooler making sure she can catch a glimpse of all your effects. Engage your friends in conversations to make it seem like you haven’t even noticed her at all. Meanwhile, be sure she is also noticing you with utmost desire too.

Impress her from afar

Men’s swimwear generally isn’t designed to be as seductive as that of women. Therefore, you need to pick a fabric that won’t hug your body especially if you haven’t been working out in a while and your muscles look like that of a fat woman.

Try as much as possible to appear clean from the tip of your head to your toes since you will surely be clad in little or almost nothing all day. Clip off your dirty or long fingernails and toenails before going to the beach and shave your pubic hair and underarms.

You wouldn’t want to look unkempt while trying to attract her to yourself. Carry yourself with elegance and confidence. It will speak volumes about your personality. An absolutely gorgeous woman can only encourage an equally well-groomed man.  

Approach her among a group of friends

Be sure to select a girl who is in the midst of her girlfriends. Picking a girl who is all by herself may be a herculean task for you to achieve your aim. You aren’t supposed to come across like there is an ulterior motive up your sleeves.

That is why you should choose a babe that is having great fun with her clique of friends. When you approach them, don’t jump straight to making your intention known. Begin a friendly chat and address them as a group and not individually.

Pretend not to have noticed her since your arrival and carry on with having fun introducing your buddies to her clique. You guys can return to your spot to continue your games or dance to music playing on your music box.

Avoid families

Do not try to woo a girl that is in the company of her relatives. Family members can be hostile towards you or they may discourage her from listening to your antics. Avoid going any inch closer to her because you may encounter all sorts of attitudes put up by her family to guard her interest.

There may even be toddlers around her that may make you very uncomfortable if you try to be too close for comfort. Another reason you may not want to approach a girl in a company of mixed gender is that she could have her boyfriend around somewhere without your knowledge.

You wouldn’t want physical combat to ensue between you guys that could result in a gruesome scene under the watchful eyes of your buddies and the crowd there.

Suggest playing a game

Grab any opportunity to invite her group over for a match between boys and girls. It could be handball or volleyball. Either one suits any girl no matter how elegant she may be. Endeavor to immerse yourself totally in the game and try to outshine and outrun your buddies so that you won’t go unnoticed.

Hopefully, she will begin to show signs of interest in you as the day progresses. Plan your moves such that you direct the ball at her making sure you let it touch her slightly so you could have a chance to apologize directly to her.

Invite her over for refreshments

A chilled bottle of soda or beer can’t be rejected by anyone in a hot atmosphere. After the game, suggest you all sit to calm your nerves by refreshing your thirst and exhaustion with cold drinks and candy bars or chocolate.

By now you can move inches closer to her and begin to direct your speech to her with style. You should be 60% closer to executing your plan at this juncture. Play some music and offer to dance with her in tango. Avoid touching her romantically so she can feel much more comfortable remaining with you without assuming you consider her too easy.

Calculate your steps and hold back your desire for a few moments longer. As long as things are moving smoothly without her suspecting you want something physical don’t be forward in taking the ultimate step of asking her out on a date.

Begin a conversation

If you want to pick up girls at the beach without experiencing any negative rebuffs, then you need to be resilient and disciplined. If you remain focused, you will ultimately achieve success.

Try not to stall too much and use the sunny daylight as much as you can. During that time girls feel relaxed and safe and are more willing to talk than in the night.

Try engaging a girl into a conversation with an interesting comment. Topics of interest are music genres, fashion, the weather e.t.c. Don’t digress at another topic while still discussing a particular one. Try to keep your sex drive in check to avoid mentioning any sex-related topic. Don’t show your emotions to a girl you just met.

Be focused and ask for her phone number or home address so that you can continue from there. If she seems all into you already, you can take a chance and invite her over to your place for a quick round in bed. 

Follow it up

She may decide to pass the night at your place if she finds you reliable and sincere with your feelings and attitude towards her. Don’t hesitate to grab the pleasant moment of bliss and satisfaction by offering her a cozy and airy place to sleep.

If you need to go drop her off at home, be sure to say something that will make her see you as a committed guy who doesn’t just want a fling with her.

Who knows? She may be your lifelong partner or you may just date for a while before going your separate ways. But if she doesn’t go home with you, try to use your charm to seduce her on the beach. Don’t be forceful or do anything without her consent.

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